3 Things I Learned in 2025
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1/9/20263 min read
3 things I have learnt since starting Sensual Massage
LESSON 1:The thumb is mightier then the sword
They say when you stop learning you start dying and this year the biggest thing I learnt was the power of the thumb.
It’s the thing that separates us from the animal kingdom. Having an opposable thumb has been a key factor in humans becoming the dominant species. It allows us to be precise with our grip, we have enhanced dexterity and can manipulate objects easily.
That’s great but this year I found out that the thumb is the most important and effective tool for orgasms. You may be asking how is that?
Let's just say it hits the spot perfectly 😉. I have read numerous books, talked for hours with partners about what they like, what previous encounters they enjoyed and for any hints or tips to help them reach the Magic O.
Go slow, Go hard, Suck it, Lick It tease it slap it and a whole load of other tips have been shared but not until I worked with Colin had I ever thought about or heard about the power of the thumb and my god it is a powerful tool. In Colins immortal words "This thumb will work better then a 10inch cock".
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LESSON 2: There is a lot of hurt in the world
My journey into sensual massage has been an interesting one. My reason for taking that first step was simple. I felt there was more to life then what I had experienced previously and I needed a kick up the bum to go and find out what that is and then I found Colin and Project-O was born.
I always ask my clients what their motive is for booking a massage and there are many. One common theme I keep encountering is the damage relationships, and specifically relationship breakdowns have and the huge scars they create.
Another common theme is what I call the Sensual Zombie. A lot of people stay in relationships for reasons other than love. Which is absolutely a choice I have no problem with. I don't understand it but that isn't my place. None the less this relationship has zero touch, zero intimacy and zero sex hence plodding along through that situation like a zombie.
When you are in these situations and possibly we can include being single for a period of time and meeting blokes who are just a bit crap time and time again. We lose confidence in ourselves and also in the human condition. Is there really anyone out there for me?
Hopefully there is and they are just around the corner but in the meantime Sensual Massage can be a hugely powerful tool. Taking that first step to book a massage is scary but shows a can do attitude. You are willing to put your wants and desires first and act on them. Sensual Massage can boost your confidence, and self esteem. Allowing yourself to be vulnerable is brave, allowing yourself to let go explore those inner thoughts is empowering, very sexy and for everyone I have met the first step towards true independence and happiness.
For me seeing that transformation and knowing I helped in some small way is extremely satisfying.
LESSON 3: You can never get to much massage
Spending time with your partner and exploring the art of massage on each other has no rival when it comes to intimacy. One lies back and puts all their trust and vulnerability in the giver while the giver gets to explore and give an enormous amount of pleasure and joy.
This has a huge impact on the relationship. A greater connection, a deeper bond and a level of understanding of each others wants and needs that you just don’t get in a typical relationship.
If in doubt massage. Massage is always the answer and there can never be too much massage. Unless your partner’s legs stop working. Then I advise a small break 😉
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I hope your sensual journey is bring you fun and happiness.
All Fingers & THUMBS
Gareth
