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General Questions

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What is a sensual massage?

The art of a sensual massage is to build trust. A trust between the masseuse and the client that allows complete relaxation. Once that trust is built through reassuring touch and educated massage strokes you will be ready to embark on the journey. Relaxing techniques start the massage to relax the muscles, wandering hands explore your errogenous zones increasing anticipation and arousal. Throughout the massage you are in control and can communicate your desires throughout. The ultimate aim is to reach a crescendo of orgasms however there is no pressure or expectation just your total enjoyment of the experience. A sensual massage can help with intimacy fears, loss of libido and can help with understanding your sexual desires and performance. At all times you will be treated with care and integrity.

How can I be sure I won’t experience something I don’t want or like?

Whether taking the Whisper,Ignite or Surrender massage, female clients must complete the Authorisation & Request Form before the first appointment. This form details explicitly what you would like, what to expect and lays out all of your boundaries which will be respected at all times. The Authorisation & Request Form enables you to create your ideal experience by scoring each element out of 10. 10 means its a must and 0 means its a NO. The form also acts as legal authority for me to give you this massage.

How can I ensure confidentiality and discretion?

The motives for booking a sensual massage with Project-O are always respected. Some are seeking pleasure and single, some are in a relationship and have booked without telling their partner. Project-O is a safe space and will always treat your privacy with discretion. To the point that should we meet outside of the massage I would ignore you until spoken too.

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Where are you located?

I am located in Andover. I am happy to travel. The full address will be given on confirmation of your appointment.

Do you give home or hotel visits?

Project-O is a mobile service for women, couples or for those with disabilities, I am happy to consider coming to your location (hotel or home) Travel costs around Andover will be free of charge. For appointments further afield, I would need to work out a rate for you.

The objectives of a Tantric massage/Yoni massage and the Sensual massage I deliver are the same. Give you a wonderful experience in a safe, discreet environment. A sensual massage prioritises touch and connection, stripping us back to the most basic of instincts. Intimacy, sensuality and arousal. Tantra is more spiritual with rituals, breathing exercises and/or meditation which I do not include.

I have had a Tantric massage before or heard of it; is this the same?

Do you have any testimonials or feedback from previous clients I can read?

Yes, I have all of my reviews here.

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I am nervous, what can you tell me to make me feel calmer?

You are not alone when getting nervous about unlocking your sensuality. Thats why I always have a 15 minute call to answer any of your questions or concerns. Whether its choosing the right massage or just chatting about how it works my aim is to reassure you and guide you towards the right choice. Even if thats not having a massage at all. Together we can figure out the best option for you. To arrange this call, just text me on 07467927185.

Can I spread my payments for a single or series of appointments?

Yes. I take a £50 deposit on booking to secure your appointment. The remaining balance to be paid on the day.

Questions about the content of the massage

Most of the answers below apply to The Surrender massage but answers that are NOT relevant to The Whisper and Ignite Massages (less intimate than The Surrender) are asterisked below (*) in red.

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What are the differences between The Whisper, The Ignite and The Surrender massages?

The Whisper massage is 60mins. This is our introductory massage for those women who have no experience of sensual massage. This is a light massage with light external stimulation (nipple & clitoral. The Ignite massage is 75mins. This massage adds external and internal stimulation but is not as intense as the Surrender massage. The Surrender massage is the ultimate in self care. It involves 90mins of total bliss.It incorporates all of the techniques of the Whisper and Ignite but adds body-2-body and more advanced techniques as well as being tailored to your needs detailed in the client authorisation form.

If I wanted you to, would you undress me before the massage?

No, after meeting you and a brief conversation I leave you to undress and take a shower. I return to the room once you are lying on the treatment bed.

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Do you give body-to-body contact?

During all the massages I use my hands, elbows and forearms. Body-2-Body is only offered in the Surrender massage.*

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What oils do you use?

I use unscented grape-seed oil and, at times, standard water-based lubrication cream. If you have any allergies or prefer a particular type of oil or lubrication to be used, then please tell me in advance and bring some along with you. I cannot give a dry massage.

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What methods of communication are there for identifying my boundaries?

Firstly our 15 minute discovery call will establish your objectives for the massage. Filling out the Authorisation & Request Form will then elaborate on any specific boundaries you have. During the massage I will use hand holding gestures to confirm your comfort levels. And you are of course able to speak to me at anytime should you be uncomfortable or need me to change something.

Are you clothed when giving the massage?

I begin the massage fully clothed in light cotton shorts and polo shirt and then become topless partway through. I can be naked upon request.

Can I touch you during the massage?

The beauty of Sensual massage is the intimacy shared between two people. Some women like to lie back and just enjoy the experience. Others enjoy to touch. Either way you are in control and can express your desires in the Authorisation & Request Form.

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How is the vaginal stimulation given to women?

This is given with hands and fingers or if requested with a sex toy. Grape-seed oil or water-based lubrications are used. You are welcome to bring your own oil and lubrication if you prefer. The type and intensity of both the clitoral and vaginal stimulation can be indicated when you complete the Authorisation & Request form. Clitoral stimulation is given in phases 2 & 3 of the massage with vaginal stimulation (both external and internal) given in phases 3 & 4. The depth and intensity of the vaginal stimulation are guided by you, but I aim to follow your responses as the massage progresses.

Can I talk to you before or during the massage?

Of course you can. On arrival, if you feel it helps, we can chat about the treatment for a few minutes before you take a shower and at the beginning of the massage it’s also fine to chat. Once the massage is underway, however, it’s best to refrain from conversation and use the hand-holding method to communicate how you feel during the massage. I will explain this when you get here.

Do you kiss during the massage?

No.

I make quite a bit of noise when I am turned on – is that a problem?

Not at all - You are free to express your pleasure any way you see fit. The more noise you make the more I will know you are enjoying the massage and the more I can give safe in the knowledge you are enjoying yourself.

I am concerned that when turned on, I might cross your boundaries.

Erotic stimulation between two people in whatever circumstances relies on good communication. If there is something you feel you want to do or say, then go ahead as I won’t be offended. If it is something that falls beyond my own personal and professional boundaries, then I will gently say so.

Again, this can be indicated by the Authorisation & Request form, stating your preference for external only, internal or not to be included. *

Is anal stimulation an option?

Will you use any toys or vibrators on me?

This is your choice, and I have several vibrators, but I only bring them into the massage if the client has requested the use of them. You can also bring your own.

Can you include any fetish or role-play?

I am happy to include some light domination only. I do not role-play.

Will you include penetrative sex in the massage?

No. I do not have penetrative sex. All stimulation is given as described above and can be re-confirmed in type and intensity on the Authorisation & Request Form.

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Are you healthy?

Yes, I take regular sexual health checks, and since this is my main work, I always maintain a high level of personal health and hygiene. I expect this from my clients, too. I also have a female partner who also regularly tests. The latest all-clear STI test is January 2025.

Do I need to be healthy?

Absolutely. You should not attend any appointment, training, or workshops if you are showing any symptoms of fever or any other conditions that may be contagious.

Do not attend a sensual massage if you suffer from:

• Extreme anxiety

• Have any symptoms of flu or a virus

• Have excessively high blood pressure

• Are you experiencing any sexually transmitted disease

• Have a heart condition

• Have a serious skin condition

• Have any open cuts

• Have any broken bones

Do you allow poppers?

No, I do not see clients who are using poppers or who are under the influence of alcohol or drugs.

Do you give four hands massage?

Not at this time.

Other questions

Do I need to pay a deposit?

Yes, a £50 deposit will be requested via a link sent to you or can be paid by BACS into a bank account.

Can I arrive early?

No, please arrive at the time you have booked your appointment for.

What if I am running late?

Just send me a text or email to keep me informed, as I may have to make adjustments to later appointments.

Can I take a shower?

If you have not showered within one hour of the start of your appointment, then I ask you to take a full body shower before receiving the massage. You are also welcome to take another shower following the massage.

Can I have someone with me at the appointment?

Yes, sometimes partners or friends come along and sit either in a nearby room or in the treatment room and watch. The latter is what I call The Couples Experience.

Notification to friends for your security

I fully understand that if you are coming to see me for the first time you may want to let another person know where you are and that you may have arranged to text or call them once you have arrived and met. If this is the case, then please feel free to do so shortly after you arrive.

Can I have someone present in the room with me if I want?

Yes. You can have a partner or friend in the room or in the waiting room nearby or a designated female provided by myself. The latter may incur a small additional cost.

Do you need anything from me?

I want you to be yourself – to feel free to express your emotions, desires, and fantasies without restriction. To be who you want to be and to do what you want to do.

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